It could have been any night of the week, as I sat in one of those loud
and casual steak houses that are cropping up all over the country. You
know the type- a bucket of peanuts on the table, shells littering the
floor, and a bunch of perky college kids racing around with longneck
beers and sizzling platters.


Taking a sip of my iced tea, I studied the crowd over the rim of my
glass. I let my gaze linger on a few of the tables next to me, where
several uniformed military members were enjoying their meals. Smiling sadly,
I glanced across my booth to the empty seat where my husband usually
sat.


Had it had only been a few weeks since we had sat at this very table
talking about his upcoming deployment to the Middle East? He made me
promise to come back to this restaurant once a month, sit in our booth, and
treat myself to a nice dinner. He told me that he would treasure the
thought of me there eating a steak and thinking about him until he came
home. I fingered the little flag pin I wear on my jacket and wondered
where at that moment he was. Was he safe and warm? Was his cold any
better? Were any of my letters getting to him?

 



"We should just leave Iraq alone. I don't think they are hiding any
weapons. I think it is all a ploy to increase the president's popularity
and pad the budget of our military at the expense of social security and
education. We are just asking for another 9-11 and I can't say when it
happens again that we didn't deserve it."


Their words brought to mind the war protesters I had watched gathering
outside our base. Did no one appreciate the sacrifice of brave men and
women who leave their homes and family to ensure our freedom? I
glimpsed at the tables around me and saw the faces of some of those courageous
men, looking sad as they listened to the ladies talk.


"Well, I for one, think it is a travesty to invade Iraq and I am
certainly sick of our tax dollars going to train the professional baby
killers we call a military."


Professional baby killers? As I thought about what a wonderful father
my husband is and wondered how long it would be before he was able to
see his children again, indignation rose up within me. Normally reserved,
pride in my husband gave me a boldness I had never known. Tonight, one
voice would cry out on behalf of the military. One shy woman would
stand and let her pride in our troops be known. I made my way to their
table, placed my palms flat on it and lowered myself to be eye level with
them. Smiling I said, "I couldn't help overhearing your conversation. I
am sitting over her trying to enjoy my dinner alone. Do you know why I
am alone? Because my husband, whom I love dearly, is halfway across the
world defending your right to say rotten things about him. You have the
right to your opinion, and
what you think is none of my business, but what you say in my hearing
is and I will not sit by and listen to you run down my country, my
president, my husband, and all these other fine men and women in here who
put their lives on the line to give you the freedom to complain. Freedom
is expensive ladies, don't let your actions cheapen it."
I must have been louder than I meant to be, because about that time the
manager came over and asked if everything was all right. "Yes, thank
you." I replied and then turned back to the ladies, "Enjoy the rest of
your meal."


To my surprise, as I sat down to finish my steak, a round of applause
broke out in the restaurant. Not long after the ladies picked up their
check and scurried away, the manager brought me a huge helping of apple
cobbler and ice cream, compliments of the table to my left. He told me
that the ladies had tried to pay for my dinner, but someone had beaten
them to it. When I asked who, he said the couple had already left, but
that the man had mentioned he was a W.W.II vet and wanted to take care
of the wife of one of our boys.
I turned to thank the soldiers for the cobbler, but they wouldn't hear
a word of it, retorting, "Thank you, you said what we wanted to say but
weren't allowed."



As I drove home that night, for the first time in while, I didn't feel
quite so alone. My heart was filled with the warmth of all the patrons
who had stopped by my table to tell me they too were proud of my
husband and that he would be in their prayers. I knew their flags would fly a
little higher the next day. Perhaps they would look for tangible ways
to
show their pride in our country and our troops, and maybe, just maybe,
the two ladies sitting at that table next to me would pause for a
minute to appreciate all the freedom this great country offers and what it
costs to maintain. As for me, I had learned that one voice can make a
difference.
Maybe the next time protesters gather outside the gates of the base
where I live, I will proudly stand across the street with a sign of my
own. A sign that says "Thank you!"
Lori Kimble is a 31 year old teacher and proud military wife. She is a
California native currently living in Alabama.

A friend sent this to me and I sent it to my son Chris. He assked me to add it here for others to read.

"As a soldier proudly serving for his Country, Army, Family, and Friends
in the country of Iraq. I am proud to read all the remarks that all of
you have written about the wonderful website my mother made for me. I
wish that I could hear from more people like you who care and are
thankful for what me and my fellow soldiers are doing here. I am proud of my
Country, and very proud of what we are doing for the country of Iraq.
It makes me happy to know that American's back home do care about us. I
wish that they would show American's like you on the news instead of
the American's they prefer to show, the one's protesting what we are
doing here. My mother sent me a great e-mail that I'm going to ask her to
put on my web-page. It almost brought a tear to my eye. I'm going to
put it at the bottom of this e-mail for you all to read. I hope it
touches your heart the same way it did mine. Thank you for your kind words.

GOD BLESS THE USA.
Spc Christopher M. Ansley
U.S. Army"

Each time someone chooses to express there opinion about the war I hope some one reminds them of all the brave men and women that serve there country proudly fighting to defend our country and keep it free. I hope like this woman we all have the courage to stand up and defend the soilders who so willingly defend us.

I'm proud to be the mother of 3 son's who serve in the Armed Forces.

Spc Alex Ansley
United States National Guard

Spc Christopher M. Ansley
U.S. Army (Iraq)

Spc John A Proctor
U.S. Army (Iraq)



This story comes from the Inspiration List






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